Can a pacifist and realist live happily ever after?

Two people need the same values. Aside from politics, do you have similar views on working and success. Do you want to buy a home. Do you want to save for the future. If you have children, how will one or more be raised, e.g., religion, manners, strictness. If your core values are very different, if he seems a buffoon to you, then, end it. You will see your hard work and money go up in smoke as he wastes it with money making schemes. Also, if he wants your money, and claims he is good with money, don't believe it. So, sort out your values, even if it means a prenup. Get it all out there on the table. Also, if analytical people who seem judgmental and you feel bad, only get worse and more annoying. I say, run, run free and far away. Make a decision while you are young and in demand, not allowing more than six months to think about it. Either it is right, you share the same values, or it is quite wrong and doomed.