How the heck does it said that Libra and Gemini is best match?

* Your personal experiences with people who have these two signs as their sun sign does not necessarily equate to what these signs are really like. The people in your personal experience have an entire chart that they express, not just the sun sign. If you want to know the pure expression of a sign, look it up in astrology books. If you want to use your friends as examples, then your vision of the signs will always be distorted. The words you use for Libra are just not accurate: escapist, weak, passive are Pisces descriptors. Libra is a Cardinal sign, so it is not indecisive- they care about other people but make decisions quite well. And your words to describe Gemini are likewise inaccurate: down to earth, realist, decisive are words to describe Taurus, There are overlapping influences in each of these people.